We are very strict about this rule. We do not allow touching in a sexual or sensual manner without express permission. Do not touch anyone unless you know that the touch is welcome. If someone tells you no (whether it’s a request to play or have sex or a request to just talk) please accept their “no” and move on or change the conversation. Do not ask why, or ask if they’ll do something else. If you aren’t sure, err on the side of caution and don’t touch. Please keep in mind that permission granted once does not mean that consent has been given indefinitely.
The BSPC offers a FREE monthly consent workshop on the second Saturday of every month, which all members are encouraged to attend!