I have found a community full of good people with good hearts. I don’t have to be anyone else. I have found a place where I have met people who let me be completely who I am, more than I ever have been before. People who are open to the same things I am, beyond kink, to life, and connections. People who seem to like me for who I am. When I walk in that door, I don’t worry. I don’t feel self conscious. I don’t feel unsure. This is a pretty big thing for me, and not something I am used to. And it’s pretty amazing.